"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Tip: Build a Home Pull-Up Bar

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
I finally set up a punching bag and pull-up bar on my back deck last week, and I wish I had done it a long time ago. All I did for the pullup bar was screw two 8' 2x6s to the vertical rails above the steps to the deck. The metal bar came from the farm store. Total budget is about $12. It helps to have a good drill.

I can remember being able to do about seven pullups a long time ago. The first time on my new pullup bar I managed about 1 1/4. I am up to two now. It's a really short workout when you can only do two pullups, but I can see and feel my arms getting bigger already. The convenience of having it at home makes me use it a lot. It's built so it's not in the way of anything, so it's always there. I'm adding some dip bars as soon as I find the right brackets.

If you live in a typical house or apartment and wanted a pullup bar, you would basically make a big shelf to hang yourself from, probably out of 2x4s. As long as you attach it to the wall studs, it should hold your weight. If you have drywall walls and are renting, the holes you make are easy to fix. I have a lot of contractor and construction experience if anyone wants to pm me their home gym building questions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Duracell_Bunny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 18, 2009
Messages
247
Reaction score
6
Location
England
I've also added a bar, there's so many exercises that can be done as well as hanging leg raises :up:

At both ends of the rail I've used hooks where gymnast rings can be attached for dips or a heavy bag.

If going into brick/concrete I'd recommend some good heavy duty anchor bolts. Mine can support both the heavy bag and me, it's rock solid and doesn't budge at all!
 

AAAgent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 10, 2008
Messages
2,640
Reaction score
317
I've had a home pullup bar since i was 12. I used to walk in and out and do pullups each time. It's definitely helped with being able to do pullups well and potentially having broad shoulders.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,788
Reaction score
10,011
Back when I was a younger man and had more energy, I used to walk two miles to the park every day, do pull ups on the monkey bars, then walk back home.
 

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
Back when I was a younger man and had more energy, I used to walk two miles to the park every day, do pull ups on the monkey bars, then walk back home.
Haha I do this too. I take my kids out there and while they are playing, I am working out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
It's a great idea BB. Some of the guys find pull ups a bit hard on the ligaments and swap it out for inverted rowing. I guess if you drilled through your 8 by fours. You could just have the bars sitting in the hole so you could have them at different Heights which would cover the inverted rowing move.

It is amazing what you can do with body weight exercises. I bet my shoulder coming off my motorbike. Been Doin good old fashioned stomach crunches supermans squats and reverse lunges for a couple of weeks. I can see the difference already.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
It's easier on the ligaments to do rope pull-ups, also more taxing on the muscles. I've used a thick rope dog toy, which has knots in either end. I throw it over the bar and hold on to the rope.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
I think so. I can feel it not be as taxing on my elbows. However many bar pullups you can do, using the rope cuts that number in about half.
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
Why bother when you can buy really good ones that hang on a doorframe for under $20
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
Geez I wouldn't trust my hundred kg weight to no door frame. That fails my worst case scenario test.
 

blind_one

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 21, 2012
Messages
648
Reaction score
233
Location
Eye of the storm
Geez I wouldn't trust my hundred kg weight to no door frame. That fails my worst case scenario test.
This one is not home built, unless you can weld :D



You do not have to tell me that :D me and my Pa installed this one. 8 steel pins/pegs whatever you call it. 3 of them are 3 x 4in and 5 x 3in. Plus its useful towel hanger.
 
Top