"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Suck it up.

People will often see your confidence and try to leech it. Girls will talk about what they are afraid of, what makes them angry, their bad dream or how their mom doesnt love them.

Just because you are strong enough to ameliorate the pain of those around you does NOT mean you should absorb and share their problems.

You should sheild those around you from their problems by allowing them to forget the pain and have FUN with you.

This isnt another friendzone rant. This pertains to EVERYONE in your life. People NEED pain, they LEARN from it... if you take it from them you are crippling them, and associating yourself with the failure you impose.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Exactly where I want to be.
Anthony likes boys :eek: :) :D :p
 
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