"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Suck it up.

People will often see your confidence and try to leech it. Girls will talk about what they are afraid of, what makes them angry, their bad dream or how their mom doesnt love them.

Just because you are strong enough to ameliorate the pain of those around you does NOT mean you should absorb and share their problems.

You should sheild those around you from their problems by allowing them to forget the pain and have FUN with you.

This isnt another friendzone rant. This pertains to EVERYONE in your life. People NEED pain, they LEARN from it... if you take it from them you are crippling them, and associating yourself with the failure you impose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anthony likes boys :eek: :) :D :p
 
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