"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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****ting where you stand. A trial in lmr.

Bossman90

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Basically I got this waitress from a strip club that I've pulled a couple times from. I turned her into my gf because of lmr and now she's making me wait for sex which I don't like at all. I'm looking at my future here. When I break up with her, I don't want to be banned from the club because it has the hottest strippers in town that work there. What would be a good way to handle both situations?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zinc4

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i would only go to strips clubs if i were rich and had nothing else to do with my money, otherwise it aint worth wasting the money...
 

JoeMarron

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So let me get this straight. She wouldn't let you smash so you reward her by making her your gf. How in the hell did you twist your mind into thinking this was a good idea?
 

Bossman90

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JoeMarron said:
So let me get this straight. She wouldn't let you smash so you reward her by making her your gf. How in the hell did you twist your mind into thinking this was a good idea?
I thought she was worth it compared to the dumb *****es I normally go after, that I meet in bars.
 

VladPatton

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Ditch her and keep going to the club. You're a paying customer in a bad economy, no one's gonna ban you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dalshtröm

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You cannot be banned. You have not broken any rules. Now if you had have broken..
 

JoeMarron

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Bossman90 said:
I thought she was worth it compared to the dumb *****es I normally go after, that I meet in bars.
No girl is worth that. Sex first then relationship. Always
 
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