"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****ting where you stand. A trial in lmr.

Bossman90

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Basically I got this waitress from a strip club that I've pulled a couple times from. I turned her into my gf because of lmr and now she's making me wait for sex which I don't like at all. I'm looking at my future here. When I break up with her, I don't want to be banned from the club because it has the hottest strippers in town that work there. What would be a good way to handle both situations?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zinc4

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i would only go to strips clubs if i were rich and had nothing else to do with my money, otherwise it aint worth wasting the money...
 

JoeMarron

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So let me get this straight. She wouldn't let you smash so you reward her by making her your gf. How in the hell did you twist your mind into thinking this was a good idea?
 

Bossman90

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JoeMarron said:
So let me get this straight. She wouldn't let you smash so you reward her by making her your gf. How in the hell did you twist your mind into thinking this was a good idea?
I thought she was worth it compared to the dumb *****es I normally go after, that I meet in bars.
 

VladPatton

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Ditch her and keep going to the club. You're a paying customer in a bad economy, no one's gonna ban you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dalshtröm

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You cannot be banned. You have not broken any rules. Now if you had have broken..
 

JoeMarron

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Bossman90 said:
I thought she was worth it compared to the dumb *****es I normally go after, that I meet in bars.
No girl is worth that. Sex first then relationship. Always
 
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