Basically I got this waitress from a strip club that I've pulled a couple times from. I turned her into my gf because of lmr and now she's making me wait for sex which I don't like at all. I'm looking at my future here. When I break up with her, I don't want to be banned from the club because it has the hottest strippers in town that work there. What would be a good way to handle both situations?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
****ting where you stand. A trial in lmr.
- Thread starter Bossman90
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Ditch her and keep going to the club. You're a paying customer in a bad economy, no one's gonna ban you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
this is so true its ridiculous.JoeMarron said:
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Dude the problem is that you did not put your wee wee in her hand