"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Matched with a yoga enthusiast type skinny chick. So we texted back and forth...blah blah blaj...meditation...blah blah blah

Got her number and i didnt wait to call her. I called right away but i sorta pranked called her since she didnt know my number. We had a little laugh and i told her it was nice to hear her voice...yuck i know.

So i asked her to meet me Saturday either pool at my place or a city date, like tourists do.

Get this...
She said she would have to get back to me because she doesnt have weekend plans yet.

So now i just go ghost....i mean...i am a stranger, but many girls have done much more with me as only a stranger.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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_sideways_ said:
Matched with a yoga enthusiast type skinny chick. So we texted back and forth...blah blah blaj...meditation...blah blah blah

Got her number and i didnt wait to call her. I called right away but i sorta pranked called her since she didnt know my number. We had a little laugh and i told her it was nice to hear her voice...yuck i know.

So i asked her to meet me Saturday either pool at my place or a city date, like tourists do.

Get this...
She said she would have to get back to me because she doesnt have weekend plans yet.

So now i just go ghost....i mean...i am a stranger, but many girls have done much more with me as only a stranger.
Sounds to me like your text game was better than your phone game. You either screwed something up in how you tried to seal this deal or possibly she just wasn't that into you. I wouldn't accept that line of reasoning.
 

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I know...i kinda forgot about her mentally after the i dont know my weekend plans yet.
 

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I went ghost on her and she texted me at 2 am. I asked for her to send me a pic...she said no nudes...but sent me her model pic...going ghost is in our arsenal of
 
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