"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Matched with a yoga enthusiast type skinny chick. So we texted back and forth...blah blah blaj...meditation...blah blah blah

Got her number and i didnt wait to call her. I called right away but i sorta pranked called her since she didnt know my number. We had a little laugh and i told her it was nice to hear her voice...yuck i know.

So i asked her to meet me Saturday either pool at my place or a city date, like tourists do.

Get this...
She said she would have to get back to me because she doesnt have weekend plans yet.

So now i just go ghost....i mean...i am a stranger, but many girls have done much more with me as only a stranger.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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_sideways_ said:
Matched with a yoga enthusiast type skinny chick. So we texted back and forth...blah blah blaj...meditation...blah blah blah

Got her number and i didnt wait to call her. I called right away but i sorta pranked called her since she didnt know my number. We had a little laugh and i told her it was nice to hear her voice...yuck i know.

So i asked her to meet me Saturday either pool at my place or a city date, like tourists do.

Get this...
She said she would have to get back to me because she doesnt have weekend plans yet.

So now i just go ghost....i mean...i am a stranger, but many girls have done much more with me as only a stranger.
Sounds to me like your text game was better than your phone game. You either screwed something up in how you tried to seal this deal or possibly she just wasn't that into you. I wouldn't accept that line of reasoning.
 

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I know...i kinda forgot about her mentally after the i dont know my weekend plans yet.
 

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I went ghost on her and she texted me at 2 am. I asked for her to send me a pic...she said no nudes...but sent me her model pic...going ghost is in our arsenal of
 
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