Tinder openers for really hot chicks?

[MoreThanSmooth]

So most girls respond to my Tinder openers nicely. But the most physically attractive girls seem to be really crabby when it comes to openers and just ghost most of the time.

I've had 2 super likes this week from girls who were absolutely smoking but I just got ghosted with my opener. Kinda weird tbh. I'm sure they weren't bots, though.

If I go out of my way to be the "cool guy" commenting on her profile or pic in some way (I.e. "Sweet pic of the Grand Canyon there, went there myself") it's too long and not sexy enough and I'm ignored.

But if you go short and generic ("Hi hotness, blah blah.") you're probably getting ignored too.

So how do you guys normally do it?

 

[skinnyguy]

Ask them if they will accept an invitation to your bedroom

 

[flowtheory]

So most girls respond to my Tinder openers nicely. But the most physically attractive girls seem to be really crabby when it comes to openers and just ghost most of the time.

I've had 2 super likes this week from girls who were absolutely smoking but I just got ghosted with my opener. Kinda weird tbh. I'm sure they weren't bots, though.

If I go out of my way to be the "cool guy" commenting on her profile or pic in some way (I.e. "Sweet pic of the Grand Canyon there, went there myself") it's too long and not sexy enough and I'm ignored.

But if you go short and generic ("Hi hotness, blah blah.") you're probably getting ignored too.

So how do you guys normally do it?

Never comment on her physicality. Only after sex do I now compliment a woman’s physical beauty. Before that it’s about intrinsic personality qualities.

The problem here is that you’re pedastalizing hot women and in turn you’re over analyzing your first steps towards taking action.
Solution; message hotties like everyone else - something that provokes a response, is fun, original and isn’t cookie cutter. Think outside the box. If she responds, great. If she doesn’t, who cares?

Want more responses and more matches? Show you have an exciting lifestyle, post great pics, be more attractive, write a decent self blurb. I get ignored by mediocre chicks, and then messaged by hot women. Go figure. There’s no secret formula except what I just stated for general advice in the OLD world.

But what really matters is reality. Approach a woman in public and you’ll grow faster than perfecting your online game. Plus you’re communicating to your own self that you’re going for what YOU want in life as opposed to being accepted by the people who respond to your witty lines.

Online dating is a tool in the kit. However it shouldn’t be the main source of new ‘romantic’ connections, otherwise to much is being left out of your hands.

I recently asked about ten women how often they get approached in the real world by men. None of these women were below a 6. It varied from 0 times a month to 3, then the most attractive woman only once a week!! That’s terrible. Contrast that to OLD. The OLD world is saturated. And people get annoyed and think it’s them. Nah. It’s because it’s a circus in all senses.
Logically, where do you hold the best chances of obtaining a bountiful amount of plates based on this information we already know?

 

[Fzatf]

I find humor to be the best bet for keeping a girl interested through old. If they're laughing they're having fun. Though I don't change it up for really hot chicks or anything. If they ghost I'm thinking they just received interest from someone they find hotter.