Tinder help too many matches

[DarkMachiavellian]

What's up so recently I got a tinder to try out and I never had one before and in 6 days today I have 283 matches and still going. I moved to California so I figured I tried this out and the response is unbelievable. I have to decide who to talk to and what not but my problem is I don't know how to initiate the conversation like I don't want to keep saying hey whats up or how are you or how to get the number and set this up. I usually do things in person

 

[RickTheToad]

I do not do Tinder, but am on a few other sites. Just reach out and say hey, how's your day. It's all based on photos. If your photos are tight, you'd get responses. If not, then no.

 

[DarkMachiavellian]

I do not do Tinder, but am on a few other sites. Just reach out and say hey, how's your day. It's all based on photos. If your photos are tight, you'd get responses. If not, then no.

No I get responses but most of the conversations turn dry

 

[Mazer]

Good for you. Let us know how many of those turn into actual dates. I have very little success on Tinder compared to Bumble.

 

[RickTheToad]

No I get responses but most of the conversations turn dry

Yea, that happens from time to time. After the second or third message, I ask for the phone number. If they ghost, I write them off.