“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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met her off tinder...chat...get her number...a couple of texts, show some charm and make plans to meet up tonight. except she works late and tells me to come see her at work. says i can play some blackjack until she gets off...she works at a casino as a banker.
im all ok...not a bad way to spend the night.
so she asks if im going. i say yes, then she says ok but you cant spend the night at my place. lol

how did that come up? so i ask her why she said that...she says she has roomates thats why.

umm ok...but i wasnt even thinking about seeing her place on the first meet up. what you bros think is going on here?
 

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i think im gonna blow her off and tell her im a recovering gambler. something is not smelling right here. meeting her up at work is kinda weird for me...then shes already assuming i want to spend the night at her place...
 

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Nah. I wouldn't call it a bad sign too soon. She's probably just **** testing you.
 

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I actually talked her into meeting me up for her lunch break. I still feel kinda weak for going to her work place But its a casino so I can play some games too. And she did mention how I would have fun meeting her like that....I guess as opposed to like a dinner date... And I agree...free drinks while I play penny slots don't sound like a bad day.
 

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_sideways_ said:
I actually talked her into meeting me up for her lunch break. I still feel kinda weak for going to her work place But its a casino so I can play some games too. And she did mention how I would have fun meeting her like that....I guess as opposed to like a dinner date... And I agree...free drinks while I play penny slots don't sound like a bad day.
You're approaching this with a good mindset. Just go in there to have fun regardless if she's a good woman or not it whether you get a bang.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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the "cant sleep at my place" bit sounds like a **** test.
 

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Ok...so I saw her and she seemed pleased with me. Held my hand...hugged bodies while walking...kissed her on the cheeks as I left her. She told me to call her later...
It was easy date...just coffee...she found out about me and me more about her....

That's that. Now I need to find my high for the night. Can't waste this high I'm feeling... Thank god I work out
 

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_sideways_ said:
Ok...so I saw her and she seemed pleased with me. Held my hand...hugged bodies while walking...kissed her on the cheeks as I left her. She told me to call her later...
It was easy date...just coffee...she found out about me and me more about her....

That's that. Now I need to find my high for the night. Can't waste this high I'm feeling... Thank god I work out

I hope you're not gonna call her tonight. Right? Wait a couple of days.
 

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she called me when she got off work at the time she said she would be off....im chilling now eating and getting my buzzed on until she calls again....she kinda banging....not skinny...cant wait to tell how sexy she is...but nice smile for sure
 

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Her: ok but you cant spend the night at my place. lol

Me: That's cool, sleep is the last thing we'd be doing anyway ;)


This is basic game here.

You gotta understand once a girl brings up sex in anyway (90% of the time its negatively) shes thought of sleepig with you. You just gotta play it cool and keep building that tension.
 

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i texted her on my way home...just texted her some thoughts....probably AFC since i was drunk....maybe alpha by being so nonchalant about it.

i didnt get a text back until....2 in the morning with her texting hi.

i immediately called her and we had a heart to heart about what she expects and what i am willing to offer her.

she knows i want the sex...but she wants me to take it slow.

i told her if she doesnt like me..theres no point...

she said...you know i like you...

booyah....got a live one....
 

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lol maybe she wants you to wine and dine her, before you get behind her. Either way, the onus is on you to act. So make it swift and you will have the pounani which you are after.
 
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