Lozboss
Master Don Juan
Hi guys,
Need some advice from the DJs on me foray into Tinder. This is about how to play the game rather than a specific case.
So situation is:
1+1/2 weeks on Tinder
Currently getting a decent number of matches but there is a lot of flakiness on meeting for the first date.
I would like to know:
A. How much contact should I do?- it seems that both going silent after setting a date and keeping up bi daily contact to build rapport still leads to flakes.
B. I'm operating a 2 strike rule. I believe this is fair?
Dates wise:
Been on 2
1st: First went well I thought- ended up with her kissing me and then I got a soft let down two days later saying how she was too busy in her life at the moment- WTF
2nd Went well, she was touching me etc and sitting close together, near the end of the date I tried for the kiss and she pulled back with 'No, it's the first date'. I've binned her as I think this is BS - again but WTF?!
With people's diaries it's sometimes tough to get a date booked in for the same week- could this be a reason for the flakiness? Only speak to someone if you can meet in the next 3/4 days?
Any advice on my situation appreciated. Tinder and OLD is a bit different and this is my first foray into it.
Need some advice from the DJs on me foray into Tinder. This is about how to play the game rather than a specific case.
So situation is:
1+1/2 weeks on Tinder
Currently getting a decent number of matches but there is a lot of flakiness on meeting for the first date.
I would like to know:
A. How much contact should I do?- it seems that both going silent after setting a date and keeping up bi daily contact to build rapport still leads to flakes.
B. I'm operating a 2 strike rule. I believe this is fair?
Dates wise:
Been on 2
1st: First went well I thought- ended up with her kissing me and then I got a soft let down two days later saying how she was too busy in her life at the moment- WTF
2nd Went well, she was touching me etc and sitting close together, near the end of the date I tried for the kiss and she pulled back with 'No, it's the first date'. I've binned her as I think this is BS - again but WTF?!
With people's diaries it's sometimes tough to get a date booked in for the same week- could this be a reason for the flakiness? Only speak to someone if you can meet in the next 3/4 days?
Any advice on my situation appreciated. Tinder and OLD is a bit different and this is my first foray into it.