"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tinder chick said shes 165cm but looking for 185cm+ only LOL

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althrough im between 185-190 i got really turned off by this wtf lmfao


what she needs those cms for? i mean she will just be pumped right by whoever she chooses on tinder

its not like her kids will be tall or he will be her bf


im turned off because what else stupid can she require? if first requirement is this delusional and it comes in first 3min?? i consider to set a meeting and not come there.

or maybe come because not gonna lie sex with her would benefit me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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These are the requirements a women thinks she has to have until she meets a guy who she really likes that is shorter than that and then those requirements go out the window. It won't happen online tho it would have to happen IRL...

I always find those comical
 

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Girls can make all kinds of stupid physical demands on OLD or Tinder, because that whole market is so ridiculously skewed in their favour.

I've seen girls saying "Looking for a big d*ck, no timewasters" (no actual specification of what "big" is either, great) and "No one under 6'5" please" when they're like 5'0" themselves.

This isn't misandrist/sexist apparently, though. It's totally sexist if a man puts "I won't date a woman who doesn't do squats every day for her butt" or "Don't even bother messaging me if you're not DD at the chest." But it's fine for a woman to demand men have X size d*ck, that's not sexist at all.

This is why I facepalm when girls tell me how tough they have it in modern society. I actually objected last time I was out and a girl I knew said it was a "man's world". B*llocks!
 

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When they ask me how tall I am, I ask them how big their t!ts are. They either get mad and fail to see how the two relate, or laugh it off and agree to meet.
 

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You can rail against it all you want but it's supply and demand out there. There's some guy out there who matches what she thinks she wants. But I think what's annoying about it is how much front these chicks have, to actually spell it out like you're not worthy of her and I just see it as rude. They wouldn't do that in a bar but online it's like wild west out there. I legit saw an ugly girl with alopecia quoting on her Tinder that she didn't want a dude without a beard. Was she planning on stealing his hair!? I laughed so hard.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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opposite situation... but met OLD
im 5'8 (174) and lady from Russia takes the train tomorrow for a date, she is 6'0 (184)
leading up to this she seems to be worried how I will feel, and seems to be very self conscious of her height in general - NAWALT ?

lets see how it goes...
 

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Pretty standard for a chick to want someone 6'+ why are you crying about it
 

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opposite situation... but met OLD
im 5'8 (174) and lady from Russia takes the train tomorrow for a date, she is 6'0 (184)
leading up to this she seems to be worried how I will feel, and seems to be very self conscious of her height in general - NAWALT ?

lets see how it goes...
Don't acknowledge it. Pretend like she's not tall.
 

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Then you'll turn around and tell him it's all about personality....
It's many things, one thing for certain, crying is not going to get you women. Neither will being a passive aggressive so and so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont be mad at her, be mad at the other guys.

Sometime I believe there should be a worker union to keep the value in check and beat the guys who sell themselves too low.
 

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Don't acknowledge it. Pretend like she's not tall.
good date, height not an issue...
again another woman who said she is turned on by a guys confidence and substance of character

not height
not ripped abs
not Lambo

women want a man, a real man
 

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Sometimes a hot, quality chick will come out of a relationship - disillusioned, jaded, she doesn't go out much, it's not her thing... look, OLD!

They are not on the market long, but lets not deceive people into thinking all OLD is trash (majority are) the good ones won't even bother matching you, that's all it is.

Stop crying guys this forum is getting whinier by the day.
 

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It's many things, one thing for certain, crying is not going to get you women. Neither will being a passive aggressive so and so.
I am all for telling guys the truth about women's shallowness. Hell, I think face matters even more.
 
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althrough im between 185-190 i got really turned off by this wtf lmfao


what she needs those cms for? i mean she will just be pumped right by whoever she chooses on tinder

its not like her kids will be tall or he will be her bf


im turned off because what else stupid can she require? if first requirement is this delusional and it comes in first 3min?? i consider to set a meeting and not come there.

or maybe come because not gonna lie sex with her would benefit me

Look, women like men, have physical preferences. If you don't fit her criteria who cares? Don't shame them for wanting a tall guy.

I'm sure there are lots of girls who don't fit your physical criteria. Should you be shamed for that? No. It's your right to have a physical preference, as it is hers.

Just have a chuckle and move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Look, women like men, have physical preferences. If you don't fit her criteria who cares? Don't shame them for wanting a tall guy.

I'm sure there are lots of girls who don't fit your physical criteria. Should you be shamed for that? No. It's your right to have a physical preference, as it is hers.

Just have a chuckle and move on.
the thing is I FIT her criteria because im tall dude. but its just plain stupid. i removed her anyway. but got 3 numbers from women with big IL and added then on whatsapp
 
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