Do you know Randy Orton the WWE performer?
Well during the mid 00s, I was a wrestling fan and decided to used one of his pictures as msn messenger avatar.
A couple of girls I had among my contacts tought it was me and started talking non stop, they were warm and shared many intimate details with me, their messages were long, elaborated and full of emoticons.
This proved that they didnt even remember about me despite being in touch on msn from months and most of all it proved that they cease to "be busy" once they like what they see...anytime I tried to talk to them before they all replied after minutes if not hours with short lazy closed answers and no emoticons.
They were all "sorry but busy" and apparently got some time only when they imagined Randy Orton was talking to them.
My messages in terms of politeness and niceness made no difference, it was all about the picture...me a late teen average guy vs a muscular chad.