"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tinder : Are profiles matched in real time

positive5530

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HI !


I created my tinder profile yesterday and I used it until I reached the right swipe limit but I had only one match (a fake profile). Frustrated and perplexed, I deleted my account 30 minutes after. Should I have waited more or my profile simply sucked ?

Are tinder profiles matched in real time ? By that I mean are the profiles you swipe online as you swipe or should you typically wait a few days to figure out if you have a good profile ?

Thank you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gravityeyelids

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Tinder only matches you with someone if BOTH of you swipe right on each other. And yes it is in "real time" as you say.

So, let's say that you swipe right on Rachel and 30 other women. It's not going to match you with Rachel or the women unless she swiped right on you and UNTIL she swipes right on you. It's possible that she swiped right on you right after you created an account and then it'll match you with her immediately once you also swipe right on her. It usually takes a day or two to match unless the girl is on there constantly.

So basically, yes, you're impatient and need to wait more than 30 fvcking minutes. Lmao.
 

El Payaso

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You need to give it at least a week before you quit. 30 minutes is nothing.
 
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