"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tinder : Are profiles matched in real time

positive5530

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HI !


I created my tinder profile yesterday and I used it until I reached the right swipe limit but I had only one match (a fake profile). Frustrated and perplexed, I deleted my account 30 minutes after. Should I have waited more or my profile simply sucked ?

Are tinder profiles matched in real time ? By that I mean are the profiles you swipe online as you swipe or should you typically wait a few days to figure out if you have a good profile ?

Thank you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gravityeyelids

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Tinder only matches you with someone if BOTH of you swipe right on each other. And yes it is in "real time" as you say.

So, let's say that you swipe right on Rachel and 30 other women. It's not going to match you with Rachel or the women unless she swiped right on you and UNTIL she swipes right on you. It's possible that she swiped right on you right after you created an account and then it'll match you with her immediately once you also swipe right on her. It usually takes a day or two to match unless the girl is on there constantly.

So basically, yes, you're impatient and need to wait more than 30 fvcking minutes. Lmao.
 

El Payaso

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You need to give it at least a week before you quit. 30 minutes is nothing.
 
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