"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tinder : Are profiles matched in real time

positive5530

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HI !


I created my tinder profile yesterday and I used it until I reached the right swipe limit but I had only one match (a fake profile). Frustrated and perplexed, I deleted my account 30 minutes after. Should I have waited more or my profile simply sucked ?

Are tinder profiles matched in real time ? By that I mean are the profiles you swipe online as you swipe or should you typically wait a few days to figure out if you have a good profile ?

Thank you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gravityeyelids

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Tinder only matches you with someone if BOTH of you swipe right on each other. And yes it is in "real time" as you say.

So, let's say that you swipe right on Rachel and 30 other women. It's not going to match you with Rachel or the women unless she swiped right on you and UNTIL she swipes right on you. It's possible that she swiped right on you right after you created an account and then it'll match you with her immediately once you also swipe right on her. It usually takes a day or two to match unless the girl is on there constantly.

So basically, yes, you're impatient and need to wait more than 30 fvcking minutes. Lmao.
 

El Payaso

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You need to give it at least a week before you quit. 30 minutes is nothing.
 
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