I dont know if it is me but the effectiveness of my game depends on the weather. Like when it is warm/hot and sunny my game is in top shape and I got no trouble talkin to women. However, when its freezing/raining my game is so ineffective and all. Whats worse is that here in L.A., too many days have been basically a washout so my game has been virtually ineffective. I hope it gets warm/sunny soon. Fellas, are there ever times when your game is at an all time low?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Times when your game is ineffective
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
The cold just makes me miserable so I usually get a lot more moody in winter/colder months and am generally pissed off at everyone. I don't know why, the extreme cold just destroys my soul
squirrels
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Word.
WhitePimp, I feel the same way as you. Here in L.A. normally in the winter it may rain once every week or two and on other days its like 70-80 degrees and sunny. Here its so wierd and its been soaking everyday which has really dampened my mood alot, thus affecting my game. I can't wait till summer for hopefully that will be when my game is at its best.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I thought it was the only one!
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Wow... So did I
I've been feeling like **** for the past two weeks, and it's been raining/snowing/freezing for those two weeks.
Everywhere you go, people are feeling like ****. When you go out, there's hardly anybody dancing. People just seem colder for some reason, there's no real laughing going on, just small jokes.
It is kinda funny, I've been leaving home feeling good... then riding to school by bike and arriving really grumpy. I've been fighting it at all costs, but it just keeps on making me feel less comfortable for some reason.
Fortunatly I took a day off today and just did absolutely nothing all day long. Life feels better all of a sudden
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I've been feeling like **** for the past two weeks, and it's been raining/snowing/freezing for those two weeks.
Everywhere you go, people are feeling like ****. When you go out, there's hardly anybody dancing. People just seem colder for some reason, there's no real laughing going on, just small jokes.
It is kinda funny, I've been leaving home feeling good... then riding to school by bike and arriving really grumpy. I've been fighting it at all costs, but it just keeps on making me feel less comfortable for some reason.
Fortunatly I took a day off today and just did absolutely nothing all day long. Life feels better all of a sudden
.affliction
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My game and mood depend almost entirely on how well rested I am.
Sleep is so important.
Sleep is so important.
The attraction already has to be there for "game" to work IMO. After this you can either increase the attraction or break it. So if you get rejected it's probs because of your looks, not your game. I guess you could get the ODD girl on game alone but that would be rare and shed probs have low intrest.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
How can your game be down because of the weather? Did you ever see Hugh Hefner/ David Beckham/ Don Juan/ James Bond or whoever you perceive to be your "Pimps/Juans".
A true Juan will never make any excuses for why he isnt pulling things out the back? When its cold or whatever, take 5 minutes to yourself, close your eyes and sensualize your situation and make sure you get the confidence back that you have on those warm days. Turn your cold days into warm and turn your warm into Hot.
A true Juan will never make any excuses for why he isnt pulling things out the back? When its cold or whatever, take 5 minutes to yourself, close your eyes and sensualize your situation and make sure you get the confidence back that you have on those warm days. Turn your cold days into warm and turn your warm into Hot.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.