I dont know if it is me but the effectiveness of my game depends on the weather. Like when it is warm/hot and sunny my game is in top shape and I got no trouble talkin to women. However, when its freezing/raining my game is so ineffective and all. Whats worse is that here in L.A., too many days have been basically a washout so my game has been virtually ineffective. I hope it gets warm/sunny soon. Fellas, are there ever times when your game is at an all time low?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Times when your game is ineffective
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
The cold just makes me miserable so I usually get a lot more moody in winter/colder months and am generally pissed off at everyone. I don't know why, the extreme cold just destroys my soul
squirrels
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Word.
WhitePimp, I feel the same way as you. Here in L.A. normally in the winter it may rain once every week or two and on other days its like 70-80 degrees and sunny. Here its so wierd and its been soaking everyday which has really dampened my mood alot, thus affecting my game. I can't wait till summer for hopefully that will be when my game is at its best.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I thought it was the only one!
I-am-someone
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Wow... So did I
I've been feeling like **** for the past two weeks, and it's been raining/snowing/freezing for those two weeks.
Everywhere you go, people are feeling like ****. When you go out, there's hardly anybody dancing. People just seem colder for some reason, there's no real laughing going on, just small jokes.
It is kinda funny, I've been leaving home feeling good... then riding to school by bike and arriving really grumpy. I've been fighting it at all costs, but it just keeps on making me feel less comfortable for some reason.
Fortunatly I took a day off today and just did absolutely nothing all day long. Life feels better all of a sudden
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I've been feeling like **** for the past two weeks, and it's been raining/snowing/freezing for those two weeks.
Everywhere you go, people are feeling like ****. When you go out, there's hardly anybody dancing. People just seem colder for some reason, there's no real laughing going on, just small jokes.
It is kinda funny, I've been leaving home feeling good... then riding to school by bike and arriving really grumpy. I've been fighting it at all costs, but it just keeps on making me feel less comfortable for some reason.
Fortunatly I took a day off today and just did absolutely nothing all day long. Life feels better all of a sudden
.affliction
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My game and mood depend almost entirely on how well rested I am.
Sleep is so important.
Sleep is so important.
The attraction already has to be there for "game" to work IMO. After this you can either increase the attraction or break it. So if you get rejected it's probs because of your looks, not your game. I guess you could get the ODD girl on game alone but that would be rare and shed probs have low intrest.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
How can your game be down because of the weather? Did you ever see Hugh Hefner/ David Beckham/ Don Juan/ James Bond or whoever you perceive to be your "Pimps/Juans".
A true Juan will never make any excuses for why he isnt pulling things out the back? When its cold or whatever, take 5 minutes to yourself, close your eyes and sensualize your situation and make sure you get the confidence back that you have on those warm days. Turn your cold days into warm and turn your warm into Hot.
A true Juan will never make any excuses for why he isnt pulling things out the back? When its cold or whatever, take 5 minutes to yourself, close your eyes and sensualize your situation and make sure you get the confidence back that you have on those warm days. Turn your cold days into warm and turn your warm into Hot.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.