"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Went out with a chick about 5 weeks ago then took her took lunch did a dinner/dancing date got her all worke dup but she said she was too tired but wanted to be at her best for sex. Flash forward to this last weekend we went out on Sat doing wine tasting went back to her parents house constant making out but she went to her friends house to hang with them (apparently plans were made prior to us hanging out on Sat afternoon)

I could have closed the deal after the dinner dancing but I like an AFC gave her space (meaning we kissed groped etc all but actual sex. (thinking back I should have followed the rule of not passing)

So the question is has the window closed or I do I need to just get her over this weekend and put the full court press on as a now or never deal?

P.S. The coming over the parents step seems to be a bit out of sequence seeing as I haven't met her friends nor has she met mine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The_411 said:
. Flash forward to this last weekend we went out on Sat doing wine tasting went back to her parents house constant making out but she went to her friends house to hang with them (apparently plans were made prior to us hanging out on Sat afternoon)
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That is a little confusing .
However I get the point ( and so should you ) that she does not want to have sex with you. I know that you (and a lot of guys) believe that all that makeout is a guarantee of sex in the near future. It in not necessarily so.

IF a woman wants to F you, she will find a way, and conversely is she does not she will also find a way to avoid getting naked...like making plans to go to her friend's place after she was with you..
 
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Got your point, I figured that my opportunity to get busy was the prior weekend at my place.

This should be an interesting next as I work with her and her mom:p good news is that I have have other things lined up.
 
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Dear 411,
"good news is that I have have other things lined up." 'Atta Boy.
 
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