"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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upcomingDJ

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hey wussup guys...

i have a question for all you DJ's out there...

How long did it take (or do you think it will take) to get to the level you want to get at?

As in, the self improvement you're going through to become your dream-self... how long has it been?


For me, it has been half a year and I have become more confident in every aspect of my life...

- better body, better health
- mastered body language
- not nervous around hot girls anymore
- number close easily
- higher grades in school
- making more money than i've ever had
- i finally got my car about a month ago
- set many goals and accomplishing each of them, slowly but getting done
- better relationships with friends and family


overall, just having an optimistic and happier attitude towards life...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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philosophy; looks do matter, an example I had 2,3 HB10's checking me out at school today, I need not even say a word, my sense of style and just the way I carry myself does the talking for me.

your brain; this ones for anyone, if you feel bad about yourself, your gonna fail, dont expect ANY broad to just jump on your ****, it wont happen, while looks do matter and can even get you laid without much effort, attitude is just as big, as for me, I am EXTREMLEY ****Y, but I care about others at the sametime, I love my pals.
Oh Yeah, one huge thing again now is being a MAN OF ACTION, if you cant stand up for yourself, you WILL NOT SUCEED, people will take advantage of you, and they wont like you, I tend to speak loudly, and I say whats on my mind, Im not scared one bit, if someone starts talkin ****, Im gonna make them look like some kind of idiot/fool, another example, if a broad is checkin me out, Im not letting my eyes off until she does, no matter how hot, A MAN OF ACTION.

stop being a ***** dude.
 

upcomingDJ

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Originally posted by IRONMAN22
philosophy; looks do matter, an example I had 2,3 HB10's checking me out at school today, I need not even say a word, my sense of style and just the way I carry myself does the talking for me.

your brain; this ones for anyone, if you feel bad about yourself, your gonna fail, dont expect ANY broad to just jump on your ****, it wont happen, while looks do matter and can even get you laid without much effort, attitude is just as big, as for me, I am EXTREMLEY ****Y, but I care about others at the sametime, I love my pals.
Oh Yeah, one huge thing again now is being a MAN OF ACTION, if you cant stand up for yourself, you WILL NOT SUCEED, people will take advantage of you, and they wont like you, I tend to speak loudly, and I say whats on my mind, Im not scared one bit, if someone starts talkin ****, Im gonna make them look like some kind of idiot/fool, another example, if a broad is checkin me out, Im not letting my eyes off until she does, no matter how hot, A MAN OF ACTION.

stop being a ***** dude.
wtf?! is this.... this has nothing to do with the topic i am explaining
 

Big Eee Zee

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hes on a rant, its best to just let him go.

As for something on topic, well done! I haven't really improved myself a whoile bunch, except for a huge buildup in confidence. And that is all i need.
 
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