"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey wussup guys...

i have a question for all you DJ's out there...

How long did it take (or do you think it will take) to get to the level you want to get at?

As in, the self improvement you're going through to become your dream-self... how long has it been?


For me, it has been half a year and I have become more confident in every aspect of my life...

- better body, better health
- mastered body language
- not nervous around hot girls anymore
- number close easily
- higher grades in school
- making more money than i've ever had
- i finally got my car about a month ago
- set many goals and accomplishing each of them, slowly but getting done
- better relationships with friends and family


overall, just having an optimistic and happier attitude towards life...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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philosophy; looks do matter, an example I had 2,3 HB10's checking me out at school today, I need not even say a word, my sense of style and just the way I carry myself does the talking for me.

your brain; this ones for anyone, if you feel bad about yourself, your gonna fail, dont expect ANY broad to just jump on your ****, it wont happen, while looks do matter and can even get you laid without much effort, attitude is just as big, as for me, I am EXTREMLEY ****Y, but I care about others at the sametime, I love my pals.
Oh Yeah, one huge thing again now is being a MAN OF ACTION, if you cant stand up for yourself, you WILL NOT SUCEED, people will take advantage of you, and they wont like you, I tend to speak loudly, and I say whats on my mind, Im not scared one bit, if someone starts talkin ****, Im gonna make them look like some kind of idiot/fool, another example, if a broad is checkin me out, Im not letting my eyes off until she does, no matter how hot, A MAN OF ACTION.

stop being a ***** dude.
 

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Originally posted by IRONMAN22
philosophy; looks do matter, an example I had 2,3 HB10's checking me out at school today, I need not even say a word, my sense of style and just the way I carry myself does the talking for me.

your brain; this ones for anyone, if you feel bad about yourself, your gonna fail, dont expect ANY broad to just jump on your ****, it wont happen, while looks do matter and can even get you laid without much effort, attitude is just as big, as for me, I am EXTREMLEY ****Y, but I care about others at the sametime, I love my pals.
Oh Yeah, one huge thing again now is being a MAN OF ACTION, if you cant stand up for yourself, you WILL NOT SUCEED, people will take advantage of you, and they wont like you, I tend to speak loudly, and I say whats on my mind, Im not scared one bit, if someone starts talkin ****, Im gonna make them look like some kind of idiot/fool, another example, if a broad is checkin me out, Im not letting my eyes off until she does, no matter how hot, A MAN OF ACTION.

stop being a ***** dude.
wtf?! is this.... this has nothing to do with the topic i am explaining
 

Big Eee Zee

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hes on a rant, its best to just let him go.

As for something on topic, well done! I haven't really improved myself a whoile bunch, except for a huge buildup in confidence. And that is all i need.
 
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