"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think I maybe on my own here. But does anyone long for the past in a romantic way. If you go back to a time in history and change your past. I know this is not rational thinking but recently I saw the film the Time Machine and was quite taken with it.

It made me go back to summer 1998 when I lived in a small village and used to frequent a pub there. I got on really well with this girl and had planned to setup a date. Its just felt right with
her, "special", at the time I was very shy. She vanished one day
after seing her over a period of time in this pub. She flirted with me and I felt huge chemistry. My mistake was not to move quickly.
How I now regret this.

Every now and again I go back to this bar, which has changed very little and I can almost dream I am back there in time and she
will once again appear. However in reality she is not there and has never been since. Maybe I'm just an old romantic.


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My god five year later and you are still thinking of the same girl, have you ever had a girlfriend since or gotten laid since. Or was it really love?:D
 
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good question. I have had girl friends since- as you can imagine they didn't add upto anything.
 
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Originally posted by Jeremymichael
good question. I have had girl friends since- as you can imagine they didn't add upto anything.
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Was this the only time you were infatuated? Or was she the best looking girl ever to give you attention?
 
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I sometime think back to the girl friends i had when i was 13-15, i wasn't really interested in them, or women in general, which is probably why they were all over me *shrugs* I remember some of them being VERY hot, but i just didn't care.

I sometimes think "I wish i could go back with my current mind frame and pop some of those cherries"

Then i look at the second hand ticking on wrist watch and remember that i'm in the PRESENT and that thinking about the past is useless.

tick tick... i'm here... tick tick, no there i go... tick tick .....i'm here now. ... tick tick, ooops no i'm not... i'm here. tick tcik... oh f*ck it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sometimes I think back to when I was 16-17 and curse myself for not having been ready as a player back then cause I could have had a even larger statistic!

I also scare myself because I've never been inlove or had any strong feelings for anyone except my family. This scares me alot... Or not really but it does scare me.
 
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I wonder to myself why I think of her. I think its true to say she
has been the most attractive girl interested in me (in my opinion of course). Pitty I have never seen her since
 
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