"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Time to RONNIE...something that helps me lift

I-tallionStallion

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I used to have a lot of trouble with heavy lifts, especially the deadlift. I'd stand over the weight...hands gripping the cold bar...and i'd loathe picking it up. I was scared I'd get hurt, I was scared i couldn't do it. This is when i was deadlifting at around 240 about 3-4 months ago...it was so heavy at the time. It would take me and my friend like an hour to do the warmups and our 3sets.

Then one day i stumbled upon the famous Ronnie coleman 800lb deadlift http://youtube.com/watch?v=FvuCkPIqQQM

As we all know this guy is beast...but something i noticed he did was that he would get so pumped up before he would lift...he yells and his trainer would get him ready to pull that weight...unlike me who would just stare down at the weight anticipating the pain - cracking jokes with my friend. Maybe occasionly letting out loud farts during the excerise and dropping the weight haha

BUT SERIOUSLY -After i saw that video...I got angry at myself. Here i am, being a pvssy about doing it and this guy loves it. I got so worked up, andreline flowing, maybe a little angry...but to say the least the feeling was INTENSE. When i got to the gym that day it motivated me to walk up to that bar and pull weights i've never pulled before. I'd grunt, heave, and ho. And I started going up to the weights like I never thought i would every week. Pulling pounds that i thought were impossible for me. I now pull 355 for 3x5...

My tip is...just get fvcking PUMPED!! You are about to pull a weight you never pulled before...HOW COOL IS THAT! Remember - You pull the weight...You OWN your progress...You decide how much you're going to conquer in the gym!...Do not be scared of getting hurt! Cause you are not going to...because that weight isn't going to stop you from reaching your goals. Keep that form perfect...and be safe...EAT your carbs and protein everyday- And THEN walk up to that bar or any exercise for that manner with this new found strength. "It's time to RONNIE" as me and my friend say...time to break your previous records. People will see how intense you are...and some will look envious upon you. You can do it...NOW GET OUT THERE AND LIFT HEAVY MEN!!!
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I-tallionStallion

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haha...i just posted that lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I-tallionStallion said:
I used to have a lot of trouble with heavy lifts, especially the deadlift. I'd stand over the weight...hands gripping the bar the cold bar...and i'd loathe picking it up. I was scared I'd get hurt, I was scared i couldn't do it. This is when i was deadlifting at around 240 about 3-4 months ago...it was so heavy at the time. It would take me and my friend like an hour to do the warmups and our 3sets.

Then one day i stumbled upon the famous Ronnie coleman 800lb deadlift http://youtube.com/watch?v=FvuCkPIqQQM

As we all know this guy is beast...but something i noticed he did was that he would get so pumped up before he would lift...he yells and his trainer would get him ready to pull that weight...unlike me who would just stare down at the weight anticipating the pain - cracking jokes with my friend. Maybe occasionly letting out loud farts during the excerise and dropping the weight haha

BUT SERIOUSLY -After i saw that video...I got angry at myself. Here i am, being a pvssy about doing it and this guy loves it. I got so worked up, andreline flowing, maybe a little angry...but the to say the least the feeling was INTENSE. When i got to the gym that day it motivated me to walk up to that bar and pull weights i've never pulled before. I'd grunt, heave, and ho. And I started going up to the weights like I never thought i would every week. Pulling pounds that i thought were impossible for me. I now pull 355 for 3x5...

My tip is...just get fvcking PUMPED!! You are about to pull a weight you never pulled before...HOW COOL IS THAT! Remember - You pull the weight...You OWN your progress...You decide how much you're going to conquer in the gym!...Do not be scared of getting hurt! Cause you are not going to...because that weight isn't going to stop you from reaching your goals. Keep that form perfect...and be safe...EAT your carbs and protein everyday- And THEN walk up to that bar or any exercise for that manner with this new found strength. "It's time to RONNIE" as me and my friend say...time to break your previous records. People will see how intense you are...and some will look envious upon you. You can do it...NOW GET OUT THERE AND LIFT HEAVY MEN!!!

Props on the words of encouragement. Yeah, we never progress until we believe that we can do it.
 
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