"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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guitaronfire411

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Really easy situation:

A girl I met last night gave me her number when I told her to after chillin' together for a few minutes. I phoned her today mid-afternoon (everyone knows of that 3-day rule these days) to talk and arrange a meet, but she said that she was about to leave her house to meet someone.

OK. Whatever. I don't have time to chase girls anymore. I calmly gave her my name and contact info and was going to leave it at that. She asked me to repeat the last few digits of my cell #.

She never mentioned if she was going to phone or not or when. I have no expectations here.

Do you think she'll call?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anybody's guess is as good as yours, ie. you just gotta wait an find out. The real question is why do you care? You should have a number of girls waiting for you to call them.
 
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MisterMcGee

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No, he 'shouldn't' have a number of girls waiting for him to call them. That's only if you need the cushion. If you aren't needy because you have other things going on in your life, aside from women/girls/lays, then you don't necessarily need the cushion of many plates.
 
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I'm working on other #'s. I just find it a downer when they're so excited or seem interested in-person and then they're a different person a day later. :)
 
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