"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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guitaronfire411

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Really easy situation:

A girl I met last night gave me her number when I told her to after chillin' together for a few minutes. I phoned her today mid-afternoon (everyone knows of that 3-day rule these days) to talk and arrange a meet, but she said that she was about to leave her house to meet someone.

OK. Whatever. I don't have time to chase girls anymore. I calmly gave her my name and contact info and was going to leave it at that. She asked me to repeat the last few digits of my cell #.

She never mentioned if she was going to phone or not or when. I have no expectations here.

Do you think she'll call?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anybody's guess is as good as yours, ie. you just gotta wait an find out. The real question is why do you care? You should have a number of girls waiting for you to call them.
 
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MisterMcGee

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No, he 'shouldn't' have a number of girls waiting for him to call them. That's only if you need the cushion. If you aren't needy because you have other things going on in your life, aside from women/girls/lays, then you don't necessarily need the cushion of many plates.
 
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I'm working on other #'s. I just find it a downer when they're so excited or seem interested in-person and then they're a different person a day later. :)
 
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