"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Time to next?

guitaronfire411

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Really easy situation:

A girl I met last night gave me her number when I told her to after chillin' together for a few minutes. I phoned her today mid-afternoon (everyone knows of that 3-day rule these days) to talk and arrange a meet, but she said that she was about to leave her house to meet someone.

OK. Whatever. I don't have time to chase girls anymore. I calmly gave her my name and contact info and was going to leave it at that. She asked me to repeat the last few digits of my cell #.

She never mentioned if she was going to phone or not or when. I have no expectations here.

Do you think she'll call?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SickAgain

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Anybody's guess is as good as yours, ie. you just gotta wait an find out. The real question is why do you care? You should have a number of girls waiting for you to call them.
 

MisterMcGee

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No, he 'shouldn't' have a number of girls waiting for him to call them. That's only if you need the cushion. If you aren't needy because you have other things going on in your life, aside from women/girls/lays, then you don't necessarily need the cushion of many plates.
 

guitaronfire411

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I'm working on other #'s. I just find it a downer when they're so excited or seem interested in-person and then they're a different person a day later. :)
 
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