"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HB Goth wants to come over and fvck, but I basically turned her down because I want to watch football. Decisions, decisions :down:

Had date number 3 with Asian girl. Went well. Progressed to hand-holding and cuddling during a movie (in the theater though...which she paid for, btw). As usual, our goodbyes are rushed due to crowded subways. But it's moving along nicely. The one-itis is growing strong with this one...I will use my will-power to keep my game tight.

I also turned down an offer to hang out from HB Dance yesterday, though she didn't go out of her way to make it work either.

Basically: Potential FWB girl number one is unattractive, FWB number 2 is annoying, HB Dance is a nice girl but I don't have a strong desire to see her right now. So that leaves us the Asian girl. Not bad for my first successful cold approach.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I haven't updated this in awhile due to basically seeing only the Asian girl. I hooked up with each of the OKCupid chicks mentioned in prior posts once more since I last posted, but one of them has been dropped. So, I'm banging one girl, but she seems to like me, so that might end soon too (cuz she's not hot :eek: )

Girl from class

There's this HB 7.5 girl in one of my classes. Dirty blonde, short, big boobs. She's shown (very mild) signs of interest, but I think I'm just going to see if she wants to grab a drink right then and there next time I see her (well, after class on Wednesday, that is). Even if she's busy, I assume her response will tell me if it's worth pursuing or not.

Asian Girl

Things were going very well with Asian girl. I have not had sex with her, but I've been making progress physically, and have been bringing her out of her shell. She seems quite inexperienced and conservative in that nature. I was really starting to like her, and was seeing LTR potential.

Last week she started texting me some fluff conversation stuff. I asked when she'd be free over the weekend, and we both agreed we'd be free Saturday afternoon. Saturday morning, I shot her a text. No response.

She hasn't contacted me since. She's not dead, because she posted a picture on Facebook (with some girl friend of hers), but it has apparently since been deleted.

I find this all to be extremely disrespectful, and so I am now back to actively finding new girls. She done messed up...
 
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You're doing great keeping these chicks in the rotation. Isn't it funny how women can be so attracted to you one moment and completely ignore your existence the next?

Try bold game next time and see how far you can get away with.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
You're doing great keeping these chicks in the rotation. Isn't it funny how women can be so attracted to you one moment and completely ignore your existence the next?
Tell me about it. I have no idea what happened there...

BeginningDJ said:
Try bold game next time and see how far you can get away with.
Ha, that's what I was going to do! Even got some good wine :up:
 

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Harsh rejection

HB 7.5 white brunette girl walking in front of me, towards university campus. I catch up to her at an intersection.

Me: Hi
HB: Hi...
Me: I thought you were cute so I wanted to talk to you.
HB: Uhh...ok?
Me: I'm ARrocket [extends hand]
HB: I'm HB [does not extend hand, looks like she's trying to escape]
Me: You're not gonna shake my hand?
HB: No...[starts walking away]
Me: Ok, bye.
HB: Bye.

Asian Girl

She ended up contacting me; she asked why I never replied to her her text to meet up. I was wondering the same thing, so according to her story, she replied, and I never got it. It's plausible, since I do have a shítty phone company. I have no reason not to believe her, but I'll proceed with caution.

HB Class

Well I've been flirting with her a bit, mostly positive signs from her. But she's usually in a hurry to leave right after class, and doesn't even say goodbye to me sometimes. So her IL probably isn't super high or anything, so I won't force it (tiny class, could get awkward). If an opportunity arises, I'll pounce.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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