"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wilko

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So, what Game, if any, has stuck with you five, or ten years later - what do you actually continue to use? I get that it's kind of an arbitrary distinction; where does the "Game" end and the individual begin, but I think you know what I mean.

Game-wise, I think that all I really do these days is make smart decisions, and put my own interests first. I actually act on warning signs when I see them, and I trust my gut instinct. There's a deliberateness in my choices that wasn't there when I started - and that's the part of my behaviour that I tend to think of as "Game".

That, and allowing women to think they have some direct competition for my attention.

Over to you guys. Feel free to talk about the Game you've discarded along the way also.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Boilermaker

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From what I understood from the legendary RT is

there is no distinction between the Game and the individual.

You become that man who demands his own proper role in his encounters with women while he demands the same from his woman.

This, contrary to popular feminist propaganda, is not a double standard because while you demand your natural rights to behave like a "man", you expect your partner to assume their corresponding role, in a perfectly fair division of labor. From this standpoint - I could try and argue why it is not OK for a woman to be promiscuous while similar behavior can be condoned for a man, under certain circumstances.

But that's another story.
In short, I don't like to think that I disassociate myself from my true self when I interact with women. That switch , if it exists at all, is always ON.
 

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Lol @ Boilermaker. It's definitely the more interesting part of that question, so I can't blame you for going there. I had intended the thread to be more about the specific behaviours themselves, rather than their relationship with some core identity - important though that is.

For instance:

Give us an example of something you still "do" with every "date".

Or, tell us what bit of DJ dogma just never worked for you in the real world.
 
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