"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Murk

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How do you deal with women that want all your time in the evening?

I make it clear to women it’s limited comms during working hours (they never fully get this as they will always make time to chat chit on their phones at work) and sometimes if I have to tidy up my place or do housework I’m just tired and want to sleep.

Other times work will just tire me out and I don’t want to do anything but shower dinner bed. How to I respond to sarcastic, “night then” texts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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marmel75

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Dont take the bait...they are seeing how easy it is to ruffle your feathers
 
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