"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Time needed to gain 21 pounds of muscle

A27

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Hey

Just wondering how long it would releastical take to gain around 21 pounds of muscle?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quagmire911

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It would depend on a lot of factors. Your level of advancement and your genetics being the main factors.
 

CarlitosWay

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I think most newbies can accomplish 21+ within a year to year and half of training. I know I gained over 20 lbs my first year and that was on a ****ty full body workout and not eating the best diet. That's with average to below average genetics.

Now putting into account above average or awesome genetics. You could see some one doing that in half the time. You know someone with full muscle bellies, naturally strong, more free flowing testosterone, big bone structure. Which is probably most of the guys in the nfl and most black people lmao :)

For intermediate and advanced people it will gradually taper down over the years. Some guys with over 5-10 years of training experience get ecstatic when gaining just 5-10 lbs in a whole year.

Again though 21 lbs of dry muscle mass is a lot. Yet 21 lbs of muscle+added glycogen is very attainable for most given they don't eat like pigeons and train using individualized complex movements and isolation movements in a well designed split.
 

blinkwatt101

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To gain 21 pounds of pure muscle it would take around 4-6 years.

Numbers don't mean much,just go by the look in the mirror.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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