"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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time for some change

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for the people don't know me, im a guy that is 20 years old im boxing for 3 years , still a virgin and im from holland. i had some girlfriends but they did not want to have sex:down:. so i read a lot of books but never really took some action. so my plan is to finish the dj bootcamp. i tried it once but i stopped at week 4 i think. i am a little bit shy so it is gonna be a little bit hard but funny. i made this thread to give me some motivation and it is time to play to win. btw sorry for my bad english.

goals for the next 2 months:

finish the bootcamp
graduate school
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All the best man! My only pointer is to do it with someone you have the hots for and not just any who agrees to have sex with you. I didn't, and it's been a big regret. Trust me you will have many more pu55ies in the future :rockon:
 

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thnx for the advice people i made already 5 hi's and 3 small talks. im gonna read the material right now.
 

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i got a phone number yesterday in the pub. she was easy to get but i don't gonna date her because she is not my type. i also made 5 small talks without beer
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so i went to the swimming pool on Friday and approached 2 girls smiled and talked to them but it wasn't going smooth. it went like this

me : Hi girls how are u doing
girls : Hi fine and u
me : where do u girls come from
girls : bla bla bla
Now the conversation starts to get boring and i left.

yesterday i approached 3 girls in the club.
i tried a strategy i saw on this forum and it worked good. the strategy was to concentrate on all the things around u. like somebody's shirt or necklace.
that gets you out of your head and u will think faster of things to talk about.

so i saw the girls drinking beer with a straw. it went like this
me : hello girls, why are u drinking beer with a straw
girls : only one girl responds started laughing
me : do u think u are getting drunk faster?
Girl: no we always drink like that
me : where do u come from?
Girl : Poland, i need to go to my friends bye

when i look back to this conversations, i think they are crappy but this are my first cold approaches in the last 2 months. so i need some warm up conversations.
 
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