"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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time for some change

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for the people don't know me, im a guy that is 20 years old im boxing for 3 years , still a virgin and im from holland. i had some girlfriends but they did not want to have sex:down:. so i read a lot of books but never really took some action. so my plan is to finish the dj bootcamp. i tried it once but i stopped at week 4 i think. i am a little bit shy so it is gonna be a little bit hard but funny. i made this thread to give me some motivation and it is time to play to win. btw sorry for my bad english.

goals for the next 2 months:

finish the bootcamp
graduate school
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All the best man! My only pointer is to do it with someone you have the hots for and not just any who agrees to have sex with you. I didn't, and it's been a big regret. Trust me you will have many more pu55ies in the future :rockon:
 

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thnx for the advice people i made already 5 hi's and 3 small talks. im gonna read the material right now.
 

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i got a phone number yesterday in the pub. she was easy to get but i don't gonna date her because she is not my type. i also made 5 small talks without beer
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so i went to the swimming pool on Friday and approached 2 girls smiled and talked to them but it wasn't going smooth. it went like this

me : Hi girls how are u doing
girls : Hi fine and u
me : where do u girls come from
girls : bla bla bla
Now the conversation starts to get boring and i left.

yesterday i approached 3 girls in the club.
i tried a strategy i saw on this forum and it worked good. the strategy was to concentrate on all the things around u. like somebody's shirt or necklace.
that gets you out of your head and u will think faster of things to talk about.

so i saw the girls drinking beer with a straw. it went like this
me : hello girls, why are u drinking beer with a straw
girls : only one girl responds started laughing
me : do u think u are getting drunk faster?
Girl: no we always drink like that
me : where do u come from?
Girl : Poland, i need to go to my friends bye

when i look back to this conversations, i think they are crappy but this are my first cold approaches in the last 2 months. so i need some warm up conversations.
 
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