"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Time efficient strength workout

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I’ve achieved the recomping I wanted using StrongLifts, but am now annoyed by the amount of time a session takes. I have two objectives with my workout:
  • Maintain current body
  • De-stress
I have no interest in being a gym nerd, I just want to be done with it and move on. When lifting heavily it seems the StrongLifts app's feature of having 3 minutes rest is necessary for the ATP to reload, I can confirm that. But lifting at one’s level is necessary for maintaining the current body, I guess. Current strength workout takes ~1h15min or so, I’d prefer around 30 min.

One idea I have is to improve my condition to the degree that I can lift at my max level with short pauses.

How do you do a time efficient but effective strength work out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So let say I got 3 exercises in total, dead lift, bench, etc. Should I do dead lift to technical failure and the same for the others or what do you mean by compound moves?
 

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I figured out what compound moves means in this context. So I guess my previous comment was right, correct me if I’m wrong.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd focus on doing Escalating Density Training(EDT). It acts as both a weight workout and cardio workout at the same time due to pace. No need for any additional cardio.

Basically take two compound exercises that work opposing body parts and do them back to back with no rest in between for a certain time. Like take bench press and barbell rows and do sets of 5-8 of each for as many reps as possible in 5 minutes or 8 minutes or whatever time you want.

Then your goal the next workout is to increase the number of reps during that time. Once you can increase 20% in reps then you add weight and keep doing the same thing.

Throw together 4-5 of these combos in a workout and that will be 25-35 minutes. Take 30-60 seconds between sets.

Easy to do, doubles as weight training and cardio in one, has built in mechanisms for increasing volume as you progress and will get you out of there quickly.

Highly effective.


 
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