"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Time efficient strength workout

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I’ve achieved the recomping I wanted using StrongLifts, but am now annoyed by the amount of time a session takes. I have two objectives with my workout:
  • Maintain current body
  • De-stress
I have no interest in being a gym nerd, I just want to be done with it and move on. When lifting heavily it seems the StrongLifts app's feature of having 3 minutes rest is necessary for the ATP to reload, I can confirm that. But lifting at one’s level is necessary for maintaining the current body, I guess. Current strength workout takes ~1h15min or so, I’d prefer around 30 min.

One idea I have is to improve my condition to the degree that I can lift at my max level with short pauses.

How do you do a time efficient but effective strength work out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So let say I got 3 exercises in total, dead lift, bench, etc. Should I do dead lift to technical failure and the same for the others or what do you mean by compound moves?
 

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I figured out what compound moves means in this context. So I guess my previous comment was right, correct me if I’m wrong.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd focus on doing Escalating Density Training(EDT). It acts as both a weight workout and cardio workout at the same time due to pace. No need for any additional cardio.

Basically take two compound exercises that work opposing body parts and do them back to back with no rest in between for a certain time. Like take bench press and barbell rows and do sets of 5-8 of each for as many reps as possible in 5 minutes or 8 minutes or whatever time you want.

Then your goal the next workout is to increase the number of reps during that time. Once you can increase 20% in reps then you add weight and keep doing the same thing.

Throw together 4-5 of these combos in a workout and that will be 25-35 minutes. Take 30-60 seconds between sets.

Easy to do, doubles as weight training and cardio in one, has built in mechanisms for increasing volume as you progress and will get you out of there quickly.

Highly effective.


 
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