"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Time & attention.

Rainman4707

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Someone on here told wrote that in the beginning time & attention are our biggest weapons in regards to women. I agree with this :)
So I tried this out with a HB 8.5. I texted her asking to meet up. She was busy on day I requested...so i waited until she got back in touch then asked what her schedule was like that week (good tip from same guy) we arranged date.

I now feel that i might be giving women not enough of my time & attention ha. If i request a date with a woman & she is busy i will now not ask her again & leave it up to her to ask me.

Am i going to far with this?

I'm curious to know how some of the guys on here operate.
If you text a girl asking her to meet up one night & she is busy..do you ask her again further down the line or does she now have to ask you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always make it a point to ask twice, that way if it is genuinely not possible to meet she can have another try. That having been said if she is really interested she will make time or give a counter offer.

But if after two attempts i still get nothing don't mention meeting up until she brings it up again.

Also who texts to ask someone? i always call somehow it works way better.
 

Rainman4707

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I used to call all the time, but got into habit of texting :rolleyes:
 

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I ask once. My interest is has then been made apparent. If she isn't excited that I asked her ass out, I can easily find another who will be more fun. No time for fence sitters when there are women out there wanting to get fvcked tonight
 

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A woman who wants to see you will move mountains to see you.

This is part of why I have a one strike policy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nismo-4 said:
A woman who wants to see you will move mountains to see you.

as much as i want to agree with this i can't because some mountains simply can't be moved there and then

and in my own experiences I've given a chick another offer and I've had pussvy out of it

usually you will be able to get a vibe off the chick wether she's taking the p*ss or genuinely busy use it at your own caution
 

Rainman4707

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Espi said that a good way is to ask them what their schedule is like that week :) then progress from there.
 

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Yeah Rainman is correct use text in simple form and keep it simple so your intentions can't come anyway but the way you said something.
 
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