Time apart, for better? or for worse?

[arcilitei34]

My fresh brand new relationship with my gf has come to a bitter hold as she has to leave for vacation for 4 weeks. So far its been 1 and the thought of me being with other girls is slowly creeping into my mind, but i'm sure i can hold out until she gets back. But this is the longest time i've ever been apart from any of my gf's, will things change when she gets back, usually time apart is it for better or for worse?

 

[Jerky Boi]

If you're faithful, it will bring you closer. You will learn how much it sucks being without her and you'll definitely appreciate the time you have with her more when she gets back.

 

[gravstar]

It all comes down to if you like her enough or if you don't. If you like her enough your balls will be busting to see her, however the other way can be very tempting. Especially if chicks are throwing themselves at you.

My final advice, avoid parties with chicks.

 

[Jerky Boi]

Definitely, the last thing you want to happen is to get tempted and end up doing something you're going to regret. Just wait it out, keep yourself busy, pick up a hobby, hang out with friends, and you'll be fine and very happy when she gets back.

 

[arcilitei34]

Oh no, me cheating on her with other girls is a small problem(not that i really would), my main concern is that, will things be better or worse when she comes back? As in, will she still feel the same for me, or will the relationship be just as strong sorta thing?

 

[weddingcrasher]

depends. If she really likes you then yea she will be dying to see you again, .....or she could be getting gang banged on the beach right now as we speak...

no im jk lol, but yea It all depends on her feelings toward you.

 

[StrangeButTrue]

If your relationship with her is "brand new" then why are you wasting 4 weeks of your life?

In response to your question- if you really are "brand new" I guarantee she won't be faithful, and you shouldn't wait for her. What you want to do from here is open.