"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Time apart, for better? or for worse?

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My fresh brand new relationship with my gf has come to a bitter hold as she has to leave for vacation for 4 weeks. So far its been 1 and the thought of me being with other girls is slowly creeping into my mind, but i'm sure i can hold out until she gets back. But this is the longest time i've ever been apart from any of my gf's, will things change when she gets back, usually time apart is it for better or for worse?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jerky Boi

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If you're faithful, it will bring you closer. You will learn how much it sucks being without her and you'll definitely appreciate the time you have with her more when she gets back.
 
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It all comes down to if you like her enough or if you don't. If you like her enough your balls will be busting to see her, however the other way can be very tempting. Especially if chicks are throwing themselves at you.

My final advice, avoid parties with chicks.
 
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Definitely, the last thing you want to happen is to get tempted and end up doing something you're going to regret. Just wait it out, keep yourself busy, pick up a hobby, hang out with friends, and you'll be fine and very happy when she gets back.
 
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Oh no, me cheating on her with other girls is a small problem(not that i really would), my main concern is that, will things be better or worse when she comes back? As in, will she still feel the same for me, or will the relationship be just as strong sorta thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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depends. If she really likes you then yea she will be dying to see you again, .....or she could be getting gang banged on the beach right now as we speak...

no im jk lol, but yea It all depends on her feelings toward you.
 
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If your relationship with her is "brand new" then why are you wasting 4 weeks of your life?

In response to your question- if you really are "brand new" I guarantee she won't be faithful, and you shouldn't wait for her. What you want to do from here is open.
 
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