"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tim "THE JERK" Watch it

Cod3r

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One more comment, the girl Vannessa reminds me SO much of a girl I gamed for about 6 months and totally AFC'd out once it came down to getting the lay. Ahhh brings back harsh harsh memories, damn i worked from ground zero and got her ass... then couldn't finish cuz i was scared... i'm about to cry

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The guy's personality is great, quick thinker, says what he wants... i'm not soo harsh but i like him


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I liked the guys personality with the girls to an extent. I think he went overboard a little, and if tamed down, woulda worked very nicely.
 

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KoalaKing said:
Whenever I walk into a bar by myself without a pretty lady no hot babes pay me any real attention at all which makes me strongly beleive that girls value a guy on the types of girls they have seen him with, where as guys don't really use this system to value the girls, they generally value them by what looks pleasent to their eyes, rather than the popularity of the guys that they date.
Very true, girls' looks are the ultimate indicator of value to both men AND women.

A guy values a girl by HER own looks.
A girl values a guy by how good-looking his GIRL is.
 

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Personally I don't agree with how he treated everyone, but theres no doubting that the guy has a strong frame that allows women to flock to him (I love stating the obvious). Nevertheless, I have to say that I enjoyed watching Tim the Jerk. Good post.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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His jerk routine comes across a little like it's schtick.
A lot of ****y...but no funny.

Good confidence. Good delegation with handling multiple targets.
But he lacks genuine charisma. He never had all of the girls into him.
He just antagonized the most competitive ones into cat fighting for TV time.

I'm sure it gets him laid. But he probably doesn't have to game a lot to accomplish that.

A+ for the OB/Jerk schtick.
F- for being suave.

If you wanna game using a strong pimp hand and bully attraction out of a girls with low self-esteem. Then this is one way.

It's not an example being a man with charisma.
 

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Guys like that don't neccesarily always win.They do fare better cuz they act like themselves,act more manly,etc..

But yeah If I had to chose that style and a nice guy style i'd choose his..
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
Guys like that don't neccesarily always win.They do fare better cuz they act like themselves,act more manly,etc..
Agreed. However the only thing that makes me feel a little iffy about how effective this guy was the fact that he started on top of the hill (got a running start, whatever). He was the prize not only because of his attitude, but because he was given the position of power of judge and jury by being choosen for the show.
 

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milrenkb said:
Personally I don't agree with how he treated everyone, but theres no doubting that the guy has a strong frame that allows women to flock to him (I love stating the obvious). Nevertheless, I have to say that I enjoyed watching Tim the Jerk. Good post.

I agree...
 

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I like the way he put out his hand to shake for the first girl he cut and quickly pulled it back when the girl brought out her hand. Kind of a goofy move, but he was able to pull it off. I thought he was being funny rather than a jerk. Anyone who can make an act like that seem harmless is a DJ in my book.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That show sucks. You can't learn a damn thing from that... because everyone is overacting for the camera. Those who don't get knocked off.

That guy's a ****, sorry. If you think you can learn anything from him... you're hitting on some truly stupid women. Good luck on that.
 
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