"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cod3r

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One more comment, the girl Vannessa reminds me SO much of a girl I gamed for about 6 months and totally AFC'd out once it came down to getting the lay. Ahhh brings back harsh harsh memories, damn i worked from ground zero and got her ass... then couldn't finish cuz i was scared... i'm about to cry

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The guy's personality is great, quick thinker, says what he wants... i'm not soo harsh but i like him


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I liked the guys personality with the girls to an extent. I think he went overboard a little, and if tamed down, woulda worked very nicely.
 

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KoalaKing said:
Whenever I walk into a bar by myself without a pretty lady no hot babes pay me any real attention at all which makes me strongly beleive that girls value a guy on the types of girls they have seen him with, where as guys don't really use this system to value the girls, they generally value them by what looks pleasent to their eyes, rather than the popularity of the guys that they date.
Very true, girls' looks are the ultimate indicator of value to both men AND women.

A guy values a girl by HER own looks.
A girl values a guy by how good-looking his GIRL is.
 

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Personally I don't agree with how he treated everyone, but theres no doubting that the guy has a strong frame that allows women to flock to him (I love stating the obvious). Nevertheless, I have to say that I enjoyed watching Tim the Jerk. Good post.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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His jerk routine comes across a little like it's schtick.
A lot of ****y...but no funny.

Good confidence. Good delegation with handling multiple targets.
But he lacks genuine charisma. He never had all of the girls into him.
He just antagonized the most competitive ones into cat fighting for TV time.

I'm sure it gets him laid. But he probably doesn't have to game a lot to accomplish that.

A+ for the OB/Jerk schtick.
F- for being suave.

If you wanna game using a strong pimp hand and bully attraction out of a girls with low self-esteem. Then this is one way.

It's not an example being a man with charisma.
 

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Guys like that don't neccesarily always win.They do fare better cuz they act like themselves,act more manly,etc..

But yeah If I had to chose that style and a nice guy style i'd choose his..
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
Guys like that don't neccesarily always win.They do fare better cuz they act like themselves,act more manly,etc..
Agreed. However the only thing that makes me feel a little iffy about how effective this guy was the fact that he started on top of the hill (got a running start, whatever). He was the prize not only because of his attitude, but because he was given the position of power of judge and jury by being choosen for the show.
 

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milrenkb said:
Personally I don't agree with how he treated everyone, but theres no doubting that the guy has a strong frame that allows women to flock to him (I love stating the obvious). Nevertheless, I have to say that I enjoyed watching Tim the Jerk. Good post.

I agree...
 

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I like the way he put out his hand to shake for the first girl he cut and quickly pulled it back when the girl brought out her hand. Kind of a goofy move, but he was able to pull it off. I thought he was being funny rather than a jerk. Anyone who can make an act like that seem harmless is a DJ in my book.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That show sucks. You can't learn a damn thing from that... because everyone is overacting for the camera. Those who don't get knocked off.

That guy's a ****, sorry. If you think you can learn anything from him... you're hitting on some truly stupid women. Good luck on that.
 
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