"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Till the Fat Lady Sings

R

Raven125

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2003
Messages
268
Reaction score
0
I need some help with this guys:

Last night I went to party and met this one hb9. She was lots of fun, and we hung around and i got her # but when i walked out the door to go home i just gave her a hug and she slammed the door and yelled "Thanks for the great kiss!"...

Now you see, that alone didnt bother me.. in fact.. i'm not sure what did. But ever since last night i've felt like total ****. Possibly because i missed my chance with a 9.. who knows.. I know i can call her and set something up. Today i'm supposed to go hang with this other chick, and even though i'd rather not, it's probably a good idea to both keep up my game and help prevent oneitis (i'm not worried about that though).


Anyone care to throw a guess at why'd i'd feel so ****ly?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

H

Hollowpoint

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2004
Messages
593
Reaction score
0
Because you got rejected hard?

So you gave her a hug, and she thanked you for the kiss?












Maybe........she wanted you to give her a kiss instead?
Instead of a friendly hug?
 
O

Omega

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2003
Messages
1,135
Reaction score
1
Age
38
Mabey she was a complete *****, and you were just another # she was going to lay that night? Hence, taking the kiss and then taking it further. That's just a guess. Or, no, I still stick with that.
 
B

Ballistik

Don Juan
Joined
May 6, 2004
Messages
126
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
Alexandria, VA
Wow.... Dude, if a girl gets pissed off and slams a door in your face because you didn't kiss her, you might wanna avoid her.
 
R

Raven125

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2003
Messages
268
Reaction score
0
Maybe........she wanted you to give her a kiss instead?
Instead of a friendly hug?
Click to expand...
Lol Yes i caught onto that...

But i dont see how it was a rejection.. i got the # and she was all over me all night...

Maybe shes just extremely dissapointed or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

R

Raven125

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2003
Messages
268
Reaction score
0
Haha.. ironically enough.. the name of this post comes out to mean something..

Tonight i got on the internet and this chick ims me..

Apparently the girl is intrested, but not only that, her friend that was talking to me was to.

Girl: so u and lisa hook up?
ShaneMK12: nah, not yet at least
Girl: o
ShaneMK12: i'm sure we'll meet up again sometime
Girl: well if u dont then i wanna meet up with u
ShaneMK12: Haha.. we'll have to see about that.
Girl: hmmm i klnew u wouldnt be interested
ShaneMK12: i never claimed that i was or that i wasn't
 
R

Raven125

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2003
Messages
268
Reaction score
0
She's not ugly.. its just that her whole group of girls thinks i'm irresistable lol.

Apparently she thinks the competition is better than her.
 
Last edited:
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top