Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Till the Fat Lady Sings

Raven125

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I need some help with this guys:

Last night I went to party and met this one hb9. She was lots of fun, and we hung around and i got her # but when i walked out the door to go home i just gave her a hug and she slammed the door and yelled "Thanks for the great kiss!"...

Now you see, that alone didnt bother me.. in fact.. i'm not sure what did. But ever since last night i've felt like total ****. Possibly because i missed my chance with a 9.. who knows.. I know i can call her and set something up. Today i'm supposed to go hang with this other chick, and even though i'd rather not, it's probably a good idea to both keep up my game and help prevent oneitis (i'm not worried about that though).


Anyone care to throw a guess at why'd i'd feel so ****ly?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Because you got rejected hard?

So you gave her a hug, and she thanked you for the kiss?












Maybe........she wanted you to give her a kiss instead?
Instead of a friendly hug?
 

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Mabey she was a complete *****, and you were just another # she was going to lay that night? Hence, taking the kiss and then taking it further. That's just a guess. Or, no, I still stick with that.
 

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Wow.... Dude, if a girl gets pissed off and slams a door in your face because you didn't kiss her, you might wanna avoid her.
 

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Maybe........she wanted you to give her a kiss instead?
Instead of a friendly hug?
Lol Yes i caught onto that...

But i dont see how it was a rejection.. i got the # and she was all over me all night...

Maybe shes just extremely dissapointed or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Raven125

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Haha.. ironically enough.. the name of this post comes out to mean something..

Tonight i got on the internet and this chick ims me..

Apparently the girl is intrested, but not only that, her friend that was talking to me was to.

Girl: so u and lisa hook up?
ShaneMK12: nah, not yet at least
Girl: o
ShaneMK12: i'm sure we'll meet up again sometime
Girl: well if u dont then i wanna meet up with u
ShaneMK12: Haha.. we'll have to see about that.
Girl: hmmm i klnew u wouldnt be interested
ShaneMK12: i never claimed that i was or that i wasn't
 

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She's not ugly.. its just that her whole group of girls thinks i'm irresistable lol.

Apparently she thinks the competition is better than her.
 
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