"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I need some help with this guys:

Last night I went to party and met this one hb9. She was lots of fun, and we hung around and i got her # but when i walked out the door to go home i just gave her a hug and she slammed the door and yelled "Thanks for the great kiss!"...

Now you see, that alone didnt bother me.. in fact.. i'm not sure what did. But ever since last night i've felt like total ****. Possibly because i missed my chance with a 9.. who knows.. I know i can call her and set something up. Today i'm supposed to go hang with this other chick, and even though i'd rather not, it's probably a good idea to both keep up my game and help prevent oneitis (i'm not worried about that though).


Anyone care to throw a guess at why'd i'd feel so ****ly?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Because you got rejected hard?

So you gave her a hug, and she thanked you for the kiss?












Maybe........she wanted you to give her a kiss instead?
Instead of a friendly hug?
 
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Mabey she was a complete *****, and you were just another # she was going to lay that night? Hence, taking the kiss and then taking it further. That's just a guess. Or, no, I still stick with that.
 
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Wow.... Dude, if a girl gets pissed off and slams a door in your face because you didn't kiss her, you might wanna avoid her.
 
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Maybe........she wanted you to give her a kiss instead?
Instead of a friendly hug?
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Lol Yes i caught onto that...

But i dont see how it was a rejection.. i got the # and she was all over me all night...

Maybe shes just extremely dissapointed or something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha.. ironically enough.. the name of this post comes out to mean something..

Tonight i got on the internet and this chick ims me..

Apparently the girl is intrested, but not only that, her friend that was talking to me was to.

Girl: so u and lisa hook up?
ShaneMK12: nah, not yet at least
Girl: o
ShaneMK12: i'm sure we'll meet up again sometime
Girl: well if u dont then i wanna meet up with u
ShaneMK12: Haha.. we'll have to see about that.
Girl: hmmm i klnew u wouldnt be interested
ShaneMK12: i never claimed that i was or that i wasn't
 
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She's not ugly.. its just that her whole group of girls thinks i'm irresistable lol.

Apparently she thinks the competition is better than her.
 
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