"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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toddC

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Okay, so I hookuped with my EX-girlfriend last weekend. Now I didn't make plans with her tonight but my friend made plans with her friends to hang out and shes coming. My friends and I also made plans to hang out with another group of girls tonight...
Now should I be trying to get with my ex or trying to get with a new chick?

If I went for the new chick, would my ex be pist?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sean O

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1) Never try to get back together with an ex. It just doesn't work.

2) She probably would be pissed if she saw you with another girl, even if she isn't showing any signs of jealousy. Girls are just like that. But you shouldn't care about what she thinks - just start macking on the new girl! :up:
 

amoka

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I thought for one that you were refering to your girlfriend, not your ex. Ah, why should you worry about what happens to her when you have all you can enjoy? Let her lament in the house. She'll cry and would probably have more respect for you than before. Go have fun, dude.
 

Mr_rogers

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Just watch out, lol. Your ex may choose to make things very difficult for you, just to be a *****. It happens sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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