"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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toddC

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Okay, so I hookuped with my EX-girlfriend last weekend. Now I didn't make plans with her tonight but my friend made plans with her friends to hang out and shes coming. My friends and I also made plans to hang out with another group of girls tonight...
Now should I be trying to get with my ex or trying to get with a new chick?

If I went for the new chick, would my ex be pist?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sean O

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1) Never try to get back together with an ex. It just doesn't work.

2) She probably would be pissed if she saw you with another girl, even if she isn't showing any signs of jealousy. Girls are just like that. But you shouldn't care about what she thinks - just start macking on the new girl! :up:
 
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I thought for one that you were refering to your girlfriend, not your ex. Ah, why should you worry about what happens to her when you have all you can enjoy? Let her lament in the house. She'll cry and would probably have more respect for you than before. Go have fun, dude.
 
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Just watch out, lol. Your ex may choose to make things very difficult for you, just to be a *****. It happens sometimes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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