I have been thinking about the way I dress for quite awhile. I used to have baggy shirts for years and now im just sick of it. I like my shirts to be tighter around my waist like a few inches is good for me. so im wondering how tight or lose of a shirt do you guys preffer? also do you think it really matters around the ladies?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
tight shirt, medium or baggy which do you like?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WhitePimp
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I go pretty tight. I'm not really built but I'm very solid so the tighter I go, the more full and ripped I look. Never fails! 
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Master Don Juan
I like to wear tight shirts to show off my body. Athletic.
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Medium is best on most guys, tight enough to show you have pecs, but not so tight you have nipples on show. Too tight can look gay so it all depends on the rest of your look.
Chicks generally notice a decent V-shape even in normal shirts or button downs. They tend not to be so crazy about clothes so baggy you could he hiding a beergut in it, but they don't need to be able to count the bumps in your sixpack.
Chicks generally notice a decent V-shape even in normal shirts or button downs. They tend not to be so crazy about clothes so baggy you could he hiding a beergut in it, but they don't need to be able to count the bumps in your sixpack.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.