"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tight shirt, medium or baggy which do you like?

killbill

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I have been thinking about the way I dress for quite awhile. I used to have baggy shirts for years and now im just sick of it. I like my shirts to be tighter around my waist like a few inches is good for me. so im wondering how tight or lose of a shirt do you guys preffer? also do you think it really matters around the ladies?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WhitePimp

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I go pretty tight. I'm not really built but I'm very solid so the tighter I go, the more full and ripped I look. Never fails! :D
 

Eccentric

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I wear large. Not too big, but not tight like I'm trying too hard.
 

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I like to wear tight shirts to show off my body. Athletic.

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Medium is best on most guys, tight enough to show you have pecs, but not so tight you have nipples on show. Too tight can look gay so it all depends on the rest of your look.

Chicks generally notice a decent V-shape even in normal shirts or button downs. They tend not to be so crazy about clothes so baggy you could he hiding a beergut in it, but they don't need to be able to count the bumps in your sixpack.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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killbill

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WhitePimp said:
I go pretty tight. I'm not really built but I'm very solid so the tighter I go, the more full and ripped I look. Never fails! :D
lol thats a funny but good idea. :)
 
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