"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tight shirt, medium or baggy which do you like?

killbill

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I have been thinking about the way I dress for quite awhile. I used to have baggy shirts for years and now im just sick of it. I like my shirts to be tighter around my waist like a few inches is good for me. so im wondering how tight or lose of a shirt do you guys preffer? also do you think it really matters around the ladies?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WhitePimp

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I go pretty tight. I'm not really built but I'm very solid so the tighter I go, the more full and ripped I look. Never fails! :D
 

Eccentric

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I wear large. Not too big, but not tight like I'm trying too hard.
 

comic_relief

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I like to wear tight shirts to show off my body. Athletic.

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Medium is best on most guys, tight enough to show you have pecs, but not so tight you have nipples on show. Too tight can look gay so it all depends on the rest of your look.

Chicks generally notice a decent V-shape even in normal shirts or button downs. They tend not to be so crazy about clothes so baggy you could he hiding a beergut in it, but they don't need to be able to count the bumps in your sixpack.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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killbill

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WhitePimp said:
I go pretty tight. I'm not really built but I'm very solid so the tighter I go, the more full and ripped I look. Never fails! :D
lol thats a funny but good idea. :)
 
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