"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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****tiest wingman and approaching women you're not interested in.

deltabeta

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So, yesterday night I was at a bar near university's campus. I was pretty drunk but didn't fumble while talking. I am pretty confident and don't give a **** regardless of being drunk or not, so intoxication didn't lead to a shift in personality.

Either way, I have this really good friend, I'm pretty sure he doesn't know how to wingman and I never asked him to. Me, him, and a girl were talking and the atmosphere was light and friendly. I wasn't even wheeling her and had no intent to: she wasn't interesting and wasn't hot. Outta nowhere, this guy says, "Hey! You should **** my friend". They were both friends and it sounded like a joke.

Any thoughts on how I could've reversed the situation and gamed her? I wouldn't have ****ed her either way.
Is it worth approaching women you're not interested in? I did it last night and I couldn't care less. College chicks can be so ****ty sometimes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheMonkeyKing

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I don't bother with those I'm not interested in. I'm not good at feigning interest so I just wait for something worthwhile to come along. May be your mate was trying to do you a favour. May be he was just joking around.
 
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