"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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****tiest wingman and approaching women you're not interested in.

deltabeta

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So, yesterday night I was at a bar near university's campus. I was pretty drunk but didn't fumble while talking. I am pretty confident and don't give a **** regardless of being drunk or not, so intoxication didn't lead to a shift in personality.

Either way, I have this really good friend, I'm pretty sure he doesn't know how to wingman and I never asked him to. Me, him, and a girl were talking and the atmosphere was light and friendly. I wasn't even wheeling her and had no intent to: she wasn't interesting and wasn't hot. Outta nowhere, this guy says, "Hey! You should **** my friend". They were both friends and it sounded like a joke.

Any thoughts on how I could've reversed the situation and gamed her? I wouldn't have ****ed her either way.
Is it worth approaching women you're not interested in? I did it last night and I couldn't care less. College chicks can be so ****ty sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheMonkeyKing

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I don't bother with those I'm not interested in. I'm not good at feigning interest so I just wait for something worthwhile to come along. May be your mate was trying to do you a favour. May be he was just joking around.
 
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